Should I Fictionalize My Memoir?


should I fictionalize my memoir?“I’ve been told by many friends that I should turn my life story into a book.” Does this sound familiar? The next question often is, “Should I fictionalize my memoir?”

That’s a good question! And as you might guess, the answer depends on you and your project.

Most of the ghostwriting requests I get are from people who want to share their life stories. It’s definitely a good indication if many people are pushing you in that direction.

I will say that it’s always more appealing to readers to learn that a story is completely true (unaltered). Readers love stepping into the author’s shoes for that brief moment of their life. However, there are reasons why you might not be able to stick to the complete truth.

Are you in the middle of this internal debate? If so, here are a few reasons why you might choose to fictionalize your memoir:

Bluntly, your story just isn’t interesting enough.

I tend to be rather straightforward, so I apologize if I’ve offended you. It’s just that there are stories that are fascinating and others that might make a good short story. They are fodder for a good newspaper article or an anecdotal story for a cocktail party. If you need to add some content and pizzazz, consider turning your book into a novel that is inspired by your life story.

You’d like to add a spaceship or two.

There are times when you might like to alter history a bit. Most fictionalized memoirs don’t enter the realm of science fiction, but there might be a few tales you wish to add to your story, which never really happened. When you do this, you cross a line and must call it what it is: a novel.

Your family would never speak to you again if you aired your dirty laundry.

It’s easy to disguise most people’s identities in your book by simply using another name. Some authors just use initials, like calling Dr. Quincy, Dr. Q. to protect the identity of a character. However, your brother is your brother and there is no way to get around that. Your family will know whom you’re talking about even if you call him by another name.

You’re a stickler for details and it’s all just overwhelming.

Deciding if you should fictionalize a memoirMost people fudge the facts a bit in a memoir, not worrying if Grand Central Station was truly crowded on Christmas Eve back in 1965. It’s hard to remember such a minor detail and the small handful of people that do probably won’t make a ruckus if you get it wrong. Still, if some of these facts are important to you and you don’t want to worry about getting them all correct, why not turn your memoir into a novel?

Of course, in the end, the decision to fictionalize your memoir is up to you. If you have a fascinating story, one that works as is, keep it nonfiction. When you can keep the real timeline intact and still have a fascinating story, it’s the best course of action.

Still unsure? Feel free to email me if you need a sounding board!

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